Flex: the modern woman’s handbook by Annie Auerbach has resonated with me as a woman, as a parent, as an entrepreneur and a business-owner.
Being flexible is becoming one of the most important skills as technology, science advances and gender expectations unlock opportunities and put new challenges in front of us at home and at work. Annie explores in her book how to reach flexibility of mind, work, home, body and your future.Read More
As the second half of the summer term usually is more relaxing, parents may have more time to enjoy reading books with children. Here are my recent less known favourites to enjoy by age (under 7, 7-11, over 12).Read More
Having two children on my own, I often wonder what the future is going to look like when they are adults. Environmental crises, artificial intelligence spinning out of control and increasing social inequality are few worries on my mind. It maybe not an obvious link, but one of the skills I want to give my children is to teach them empathy.
Empathy is more than just the ability to understand another person’s feelings or experiences from their perspective. It is also an ability to share your own feelings as well as externalize empathy in the form of action, i.e., helping others in some way.Read More
I will start with the confession that I rarely read fashion magazines and I am not naturally good at fashion or make up. It did not bother me as much in the past as younger people can get away with more mistakes. However, getting older means it takes more effort to look good.Read More
I love reading aloud to my children (8 and 10 yrs old) as it is our special time to bond over a funny or a sad story, discussing things and just to wind down after a busy day. Recently, we have ventured into reading and discussing poems together.Read More
As tomorrow is St Valentine’s, I wanted to talk about the marriage and love. It is not a secret that couple’s relationship changes after a child is born. What can we do to keep the marriage strong?
I spoke to Rivka Mennesson ( MBacp, MA, PGDip), an experienced psycho-dynamic psychotherapist with 10 years experience both in private and public sectors. You can listen to her top 5 tips on how to keep relationship between husband and wife healthy after the child is born in the video below as well as learn about 7 principles for a happy marriage given by John Gottman.Read More
As skiing holidays are in full-swing and some of you are planning to take a family holiday during the upcoming February half-term break, I wanted to look at how to stay safe while skiing. Also listen to top three tips from on what to do if jnuried from Mr Luke Jones , orthopaedic knee surgeon who works both for NHS at Chelsea & Westminster hospital as well as privately at Grosvenor Orthopaedic Partners, the Lister Hospital, Chelsea Bridge Road.Read More
Our generation has been bombarded by fake food for long enough that we have stopped questioning what we see in the supermarkets or restaurants. So I am on a quest to educate myself and my children about the food to increase their chances to stay healthy. I am trying as much as possible to buy seasonal, organic and locally produced food (thanks to well spread home delivery services from farmers as well as farmers markets). But more importantly, I am trying to learn from farmers, nutritionist and food makers as much as I can.Read More
The eternal question is what makes us happy and what makes our children to grow into happy adults.
I signed up for a talk with Paul Dolan, professor of Behavioural Science at LSE who will present his new book How to Escape the Myth of the Perfect Life: To prepare for the talk, I read Dolan’s previous bestseller, Happiness by Design: Finding Pleasure and Purpose in Everyday Life, which gives an interesting view: happiness is an intricate balance between immediate pleasure and life meaningfulness. So, the life is less about trading off happiness now for happiness later (and vice versa) and more about trading off pleasure and purpose at different rates at different times. How we can turn these observations into practical advice for parent? I would say:Read More
The British Education system is defined by it’s diversity and complexities – day, boarding, single sex, co-educational, 4+, 7+, 8+, 11+ and 13+ entry…. Numerous options have one unique feature that characterises them all - challenging admissions processes.
Many recognise such potentially harmful pressure on children is not sustainable and thus welcomed the well documented decision last year by the North London Girls Consortium (which is made up of twelve independent day schools see the list here) to replace their current 11+ admission process quoting: “There will be no further written assessments at our Schools, and we will develop the creativity of our interview processes.”Read More
Last week I attended a debate between Robert Plomin, author of Blueprint: How DNA Makes Us Who We Are and Ann Pleshette Murphy, author of The Secret of Play: How to Raise Smart, Healthy, Caring Kids from Birth to Age 12 organised by Intelligence Squared.
It was an evening of revisiting the old questions: how much does parenting matter; should we relax and not put too much pressure on ourselves as children are individuals born with their own blueprint and to what degree can we change the outcome?
Read the story of Gavin, a local father of a 16 years old son to see how parenting can make the difference.Read More
With the current budget, UK Government announced special £2bn funding to boost mental health support (here). Last blog, I talked about introducing meditation to the children from young age to manage their stress (here). This time, I wanted to look, is there a difference on how to raise a mentally healthy daughter versus raising emotionally healthy son?
The gender differences diminish with the age and there are always atypical girls and boys. But there are studies to show that the girls are more at risk: more than two-thirds of antidepressants prescribed to teenagers are for girls (see details here).Read More
As a parent, I come across more and more discussion about mental health issues. Senior schools introduce mental health counsellors, junior schools talk to students about stress and how to manage it, teens talk about depression and suicide is the leading cause of death among young people in the UK (see here).
What did change from the time we were growing up that makes our children emotional and psychological well-being more vulnerable? I think one of the reasons is that we are losing our skill to connect with ourselves as we are getting more connected with the outside world.Read More
On the back of this book, there is a very comprehensive list of wordless books for babies, predictable books (rhyming) for toddlers, picture books for pre-school children, short novels, poems and full novels for teens. The author has arranged all books by age and has given a short description for each book, so you can decide if the complexity is the right level for what you are looking for (as I discussed last week about story, vocabulary or narrator complexity).
Apart from the list, I found the book very inspiring as there is a great research-based discussion on how reading aloud to children benefits their cognitive development.Read More
Maya Cara's two-hour workshop aims to help you navigate through the obscure 4+ assessment process to ensure that your child is fully prepared for the assessment. The workshop describes in details the assessment process while informing you on the areas to focus on and how to work with your children while suggesting which materials and resources to use. Armed with appropriate information and structure, you can teach your little ones the necessary skills through play and fun activities at home using everyday items and objects.Read More
To read is to have a power to learn regardless of the school one attends or the teacher who teaches. But what books should I encourage my children to read and how?
Coming from non-English speaking background, I rely on school or friends to advice some tittles. However, schools often say that as soon as a child is reading, it does not matter what she/he is reading. I took it as given and followed that instruction, letting my children read whatever they choose.
However, I noticed, despite reading quite a lot, both of them struggle with comprehension tests and that made me wonder. Looking for some help, I came across this book that turned my perception of reading upside down. Reading Reconsidered: A Practical Guide to Rigorous Literacy Instruction.
In a nutshell, it does matter what children read. It makes a difference also how children read. And it is very important to discuss with your children (orally and in written) what they are reading to give them a framework to build an independent ability to analyse. If you are interested to learn more, I put together the main highlights from the book below.Read More